Find Your Soulmate with EFT Tapping

Find Your Soulmate with EFT Tapping

Annette Vaillancourt Mindset and Personal Growth Leave a Comment

Find Your Soulmate with EFT TappingSpending Valentine's Day alone? Don't despair. Annette Vaillancourt, Ph.D., author of the new book "How to Manifest Your SoulMate with EFT: Relationship as a Spiritual Path," says there's hope for those looking for love.

In an exclusive interview with Examiner.com on February 9, Dr. Vaillancourt explains that emotional freedom techniques (EFT) or tapping can help people when everything else has failed.

You say that people can use tapping to manifest more than a relationship. That EFT can help them find their soulmate. Can you tell us how?

My work is inspired by the poet Rumi’s line: “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” People manifest their soulmates when they have a means to identify and clear their internal barriers to love. Instead of focusing on lack and not having someone in their lives, readers focus on starting their soulmate relationship immediately through the exercises in my book.

You use EFT to help people manifest their soulmate. What are some of the keys ways they can tap when they are looking for a relationship?

The first stage of manifestation is clarity and commitment. Before they every tap about anything — about their relationship fears, releasing attachments to past loves, increasing self-love, etc. — I have people tap to create a strong commitment to having exactly what their heart desires. It's important for them to align the conscious and subconscious parts of their mind to support this commitment or nothing else will happen. We don’t tap to manifest a certain kind of person or from a list of desired characteristics because that is not what the soul needs. We tap to get the ego out of the way.

 Rather than provide readers with specific tapping statements, I’ve developed a way for them to uncover issues that block them all along the seven stages of manifestation. Once they are clear on the specific issues, memories or blocking beliefs they need to tap on, they are guided to develop their own specific tapping phrases.

What kind of successes can people expect if they follow the suggestions in your book?

When they get clear on what they want in a soulmate relationship, specifically how they want to be and what they want to give, they become extremely attractive. They start to live a life of equanimity, fulfillment and purpose. When people are living their soul’s purpose, they are on a collision course with their soulmate. I’ve seen many people who were stuck in the past or had given up hope, find the healthy relationship of their dreams.

How long does it take to for people to see a difference in their outlook?

Changes in outlook are immediate. Tapping helps to shift self-limiting beliefs and release fears that have blocked people from taking inspired action. I have come to think of tapping as “epiphanies on demand.” People may also see an increase in the frequency of synchronicities once they remove blocks with tapping.

What do you say to people who feel they should settle because they're too old, too unattractive, overweight etc., to find a true soulmate?

I say, “Let’s tap on that!”

Why did you decide to use EFT as the primary way for people to attract their soulmate?

All the other methods I saw for attracting a soulmate relied upon processes that only worked with the conscious mind, even though some called upon right brain/creative activity, like creating a vision board or collage. The problem with methods that only work with the conscious mind is that they ignore the energetic and subconscious blocks that are what is really keeping us from having what we want. EFT is the quickest and most accessible way I have found to work directly at the energetic and subconscious level to release those blocks and allow what is in our highest and best good to manifest.

Spending Valentine's Day alone? Don't despair. Annette Vaillancourt, Ph.D., author of the new book "How to Manifest Your SoulMate with EFT: Relationship as a Spiritual Path," says there's hope for those looking for love.

In an exclusive interview with Examiner.com on February 9, Dr. Vaillancourt explains that emotional freedom techniques (EFT) or tapping can help people when everything else has failed.

You say that people can use tapping to manifest more than a relationship. That EFT can help them find their soulmate. Can you tell us how?

My work is inspired by the poet Rumi’s line: “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” People manifest their soulmates when they have a means to identify and clear their internal barriers to love. Instead of focusing on lack and not having someone in their lives, readers focus on starting their soulmate relationship immediately through the exercises in my book.

You use EFT to help people manifest their soulmate. What are some of the keys ways they can tap when they are looking for a relationship?

The first stage of manifestation is clarity and commitment. Before they every tap about anything — about their relationship fears, releasing attachments to past loves, increasing self-love, etc. — I have people tap to create a strong commitment to having exactly what their heart desires. It's important for them to align the conscious and subconscious parts of their mind to support this commitment or nothing else will happen. We don’t tap to manifest a certain kind of person or from a list of desired characteristics because that is not what the soul needs. We tap to get the ego out of the way.

 Rather than provide readers with specific tapping statements, I’ve developed a way for them to uncover issues that block them all along the seven stages of manifestation. Once they are clear on the specific issues, memories or blocking beliefs they need to tap on, they are guided to develop their own specific tapping phrases.

What kind of successes can people expect if they follow the suggestions in your book?

When they get clear on what they want in a soulmate relationship, specifically how they want to be and what they want to give, they become extremely attractive. They start to live a life of equanimity, fulfillment and purpose. When people are living their soul’s purpose, they are on a collision course with their soulmate. I’ve seen many people who were stuck in the past or had given up hope, find the healthy relationship of their dreams.

How long does it take to for people to see a difference in their outlook?

Changes in outlook are immediate. Tapping helps to shift self-limiting beliefs and release fears that have blocked people from taking inspired action. I have come to think of tapping as “epiphanies on demand.” People may also see an increase in the frequency of synchronicities once they remove blocks with tapping.

What do you say to people who feel they should settle because they're too old, too unattractive, overweight etc., to find a true soulmate?

I say, “Let’s tap on that!”

Why did you decide to use EFT as the primary way for people to attract their soulmate?

All the other methods I saw for attracting a soulmate relied upon processes that only worked with the conscious mind, even though some called upon right brain/creative activity, like creating a vision board or collage. The problem with methods that only work with the conscious mind is that they ignore the energetic and subconscious blocks that are what is really keeping us from having what we want. EFT is the quickest and most accessible way I have found to work directly at the energetic and subconscious level to release those blocks and allow what is in our highest and best good to manifest.

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Betty RussellBetty Russell is certified as an Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) practitioner by the Association for the Advancement of Meridian Energy Techniques (AAMET) — which is the largest EFT organization in the world. She helps clients use EFT to neutralize negative emotions, beliefs, and memories so they can live happier, more fulfilling lives. You can visit Betty's website at www.yourtappingcoach.com or see her other articles at http://www.examiner.com/eft-in-national-4/betty-russell 

 

Annette Vaillancourt, Ph.D. is a master manifester. Elite SoulMate Coach, and author of “How to Manifest Your SoulMate with EFT: Relationship as a Spiritual Path,” Annette shows you how to unleash the power of your mind to manifest the love of your life.

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